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Point to Ponder : Standing on others' Shoes helps self develop ! Explanation : When there is a need to raise finger against someone , it is good that we check it against ourself and rethink as what could be done then . Examples : If we are worried that our children are more addicted to gadgets, we can think from their side to understand as who identified those to them rather introduced by which then we can set a role model ourselves or can least see children using them. If we are angry that someone is not punctual , either try to be more punctual or remember it increases anger to opposite person so let we always be punctual that increases our self quality . Scenario : If there is an official meeting set up and if someone missed to follow the meeting notes by attending it late . What do you do ? 1. What do you wish to be done if you were late and you had a reason ? 2. Think from their angle so you try to create more rapot by understanding and this creates good...

Point to Ponder : Time management and planning at all chores. Explanation: While most of us take planning effort at official task, Somehow we miss it at daily chores. It is not absolute essential to have a core planning , but a rough idea would do wonders . Example : We might run out of time by morning in food preparation and will be lost to world. Rather a simple planning for the week and prep work every night for next day morning will be of great help and saves time. Scenario : Say, tomorrow morning , umpa is planned for breakfast , we can clean all vessels reqd for it by night (2 mins) . Take the raw ingredients and keep beside stove(2 mins). This might reduce accessing time (though not much tougher task, morning tension makes it tough though if would right in front of our face) . If oil , salt and any ingredient is empty or less than required, refill it. (5mins) Keep things nearby as possible for remembering. And wen you find something is getting out of stock...

Point to Ponder : It is good to foresee things when trying to commit a mistake for time has good answer behind. Explanation : When you are about to do something , there is a pause posed by your heart stating the guilt nature of the deed. But your mind can't control it so you do it right away. But it's always worth to listen , take that pause and time travel in mind to foresee what might happen if it's done and not done . Example : We might not be able to restrict ourselves from gadgets in this era where our conscious scolds us not to do . Scenario : We can't refrain from using cellphones and it attracts us even though we don't want to. So how do we avoid ? 1. Foresee your future a little . 2. Think this, when my child grows and is on its own on its life then i can have the cellphones' company . 3. When he/ she grows up, i can't get the innocent child in them back again so to enjoy that i can postpone my happiness with gadgets right now . 4...

Point to Ponder : It is better to be approachable than a boss . Explanation: When it comes to office or parenting, a person been approachable earns respect than one who is bossy . Example : If you are a heading a team , be available to solve the problems rather question the problem . Scenario : There is an issue at the office , a defect that has laid down the day, then, things to be done by the lead : 1. Cheer up the team. Just Say ,"it's just a small black mark to stay alert ! " 2. Commit yourself to solve the problem instead of asking to resolve. It increases panic and delays work. If not bring help of handy person as possible to give additional hands. 3. Make sure to create awareness of the loss the defect incurred in a participative way. ("Our error lead to this instead of your fault."). 4. Whenever there is a problem , give attention to help rather than advise . 5. Involve in work and understand from subordinate point of view and ex...

Point to Ponder : Turn negatives to positive energy so we can achieve enormous. Explanation : We often go down by what we lack. Instead try to use it towards a better cause can result us achieve more than what we thought we could . Example : If we worry that we are unable to be an employee its time for being an entrepreneur ! Scenario : Most of us will not have opportunity to work in a foreign country , so then it's the time to help ourselves . We can do the following . 1.Learn more and of different genre so you get better understanding and get to know more (than when you were streamlined as an employer of a company) . 2. Find how creative you are by involving more DIYs. 3. Implement "Lessons learnt" to improvise. 4. An absolute opportunity to get family time and be of more family person to handle it being an upper hand to it. 5. Get to know more people and contacts . 6. Last but not least have healthy food and good rest ! When you practise ...

Point to Ponder : Cheer up to have an opposition for it is healthy with respect to one's growth! Explanation : As believed in virtual realities ,like movies, one cannot be a hero without having an opposing situation or a an opposing person(Villain); so is life . Example : Say, a husband shows less interest in any of your areas of interest or gives negative comments, think about it twice or more ,to improvise ourselves. Scenario : If you are a good at event management and you are doing in personal level and wanting to become a pro , but your husband says, "its of no use" and keeps low with it, then here is what you got to understand and do ! 1. No husband does anything against us intentionally . It should either be truly for our benefit for us not to strain or to hold to something that would not work out as to 'their extent of knowledge'. 2. Or simply they comment and even forget that they commented so. 3. With such comments, think the positi...

Point to Ponder: Have a Holistic approach towards everything. Explanation : To have a overall look at things or think from all possible angles and accept reality. Example : If you are given a harsh comment, try to look at the point instead how it has been told or understand the nature. Scenario: If a person comments your work, or has a point against your point:: 1. you be a judge (third person view)and try to understand everyone has their own point. 2. if you feel the other person has a right point that can be learnt, just take it. 3. Do not look at the way they imply it. And understand thats how they know to say it. 4.If their planned motto is to hurt you, prove them wrong . You don't need to oblige such person. 5. Or if you have even more holistic approach, (maturity at its peak), simply ignore and stay calm. #TryIt

It’s a boon to Motherhood to cook and enjoy with tears of joy to see the beauty of a child eating her preparation ! Proteins are very essential to child growth .. So here you go ! Recipes using Proteins .... 1. #dhal with veggies Cook dhal with any vegetable, carrot, beans, peas, broccoli, spinach , #Raw_banana , brinjal, gourd vegetables(ash gourd, pumpkin, bottle gourd, snake gourd,squash vegetables) , #sweet_potato .      “Cook for 5 whistles for the veggies to get mashed even . ( For some kids don't eat vegetables when caught in mouth) .” ***While in cooker add dhal , veggies, salt, a pinch of turmeric,and a little less than a drop of oil.*** ***Temper using oil, mustard, jeera ,one red chilly ,garlic pods , curry leaves and hing.*** 1. Mostly use moongdhal for its easy to digest . 2. Toordhal can be tried one week. 3. Masoor dhal next week . 4. Mixture of all 3 with little channa dhal in addition. (Mixed dhal ) #Variation : Onion ...

It is Rejoice to see kids eating .. here you go .. few more wheat recipes!!! 1. #Wheat_easy_halwa : Heat 2 tablespoon full of ghee add wheat and fry mix without lumps. Once aroma heads up add sugar . Stir well until it swirls and comes. Variations A. Can add milk B. Grind dry fruits to fine powder or paste and add along before add wheat in ghee. C. Add cardamom . 2. #Wheat_paniyaram : Heat jaggery a palmful and strain . To it add , wheat , cardamom powder, a spoon of ghee. And use paniyaram kal to make paniyarams . Variations : A. Add dry fruits powder. B. Add bananas or kerala banana(nenthram pazham,). C. Can make sweet little dosas. 3. #Wheat_Puttu (karam/spicy version(for elders and grown Kids ) ): a. Roast wheat flour and keep aside. b. Heat oil , add 1 onion, garlic 2 pods green chilly 1, hing .One or 2 mint leaves, coriander, turmeric , chilli powder and roast well, once onion starts browning, add wheat flour and sprinkle water littl...

It is always a challenge to make kids eat ! Please try these reciepes so as to make it interesting for kids and be excited as moms to do more ! Reciepe of the week ! Making them eat vegetable rich breakfast (esp. If they dont eat vegetables at all) 1. Keerai Dosai : Boil spinach in water little cumin and 3 to 4 peppercorns,a pinch of asafoetida. Once cooked grind it to paste and add to dosa batter. Green dosa ready ! 2. A slight variation : Heat oil add cumin pepper . Add little onion a piece of tomato and spinach . Add little turmeric and hing. You can also add dry chilli green chilly or chilly powder to increase spics level if preferred. Grind it and add to dosa batter. 3. One more ! Heat oil add cumin and add grated carrot/ beetroot or both. Saute with salt hing a little chilly powder. Once cooked add to dosa batter. Cruncy vegetable rich dosa ready !

A healthy eating habit inculcated in kids by parents are the best wealth they handover to their future ... Here you go ... These recipes would go good for evening times !!! #Chappathi_varieties 1... Kneading the dough as usual with light extra efforts as like previous dosa batter reci . #Chappathi pe. A. Instead of plain chappathi we can go adding a little turmeric , chilly powder hing to increase taste . B. #Keerai_chappathi : instead of water, knead dough with spinach juice. (Boil spinach in water with pepper cumin hing and once cooked grind along with water and add to wheat flour ) . Yummy green chappathi ! C. #Beetroot_carrot_chappathi Extract juices of beets and carrots or both and knead to dough...(variation : again wen extracting can add pepper jeera hing turmeric chilly powder or any combo from above of choice) . Reddish or pinkish chappathi 😊 😊 D. #Methi_chappathi : cut fenugreek leaves to finest (pls do not grind it increases bitterness). And add t...