Ponder : 7

Point to Ponder :
Cheer up to have an opposition for it is healthy with respect to one's growth!
Explanation :
As believed in virtual realities ,like movies, one cannot be a hero without having an opposing situation or a an opposing person(Villain);
so is life .
Example :
Say, a husband shows less interest in any of your areas of interest or gives negative comments, think about it twice or more ,to improvise ourselves.
Scenario :
If you are a good at event management and you are doing in personal level and wanting to become a pro , but your husband says, "its of no use" and keeps low with it, then here is what you got to understand and do !
1. No husband does anything against us intentionally . It should either be truly for our benefit for us not to strain or to hold to something that would not work out as to 'their extent of knowledge'.
2. Or simply they comment and even forget that they commented so.
3. With such comments, think the positive aspect of their words.
4. If doing event management at friends level is not enough to become a professional, do a course. Learn more about it .
5. Understand husbands' point of view and understand that men don't encourage in a pampering way .
6. Try to aim higher with it and prove yourself that you can reach heights , (and most importantly don't prove it to husbands for they react it all the same way with wins and loss . (Most of them ) )
7. Thank your husband for they are your motivational mantra to grow more ..
8. If point 4 and 6 are in place , ignore point 1 and never mind it so you are already in your heights !
Always try to keep motivated, energetic and smiling which can always handle any situation and becomes a win-win.

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