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Point to Ponder : It is good to foresee things when trying to commit a mistake for time has good answer behind.
Explanation: When you are about to do something , there is a pause posed by your heart stating the guilt nature of the deed. But your mind can't control it so you do it right away.
But it's always worth to listen , take that pause and time travel in mind to foresee what might happen if it's done and not done .
Example : We might not be able to restrict ourselves from gadgets in this era where our conscious scolds us not to do .
Scenario : We can't refrain from using cellphones and it attracts us even though we don't want to. So how do we avoid ?
1. Foresee your future a little .
2. Think this, when my child grows and is on its own on its life then i can have the cellphones' company .
3. When he/ she grows up, i can't get the innocent child in them back again so to enjoy that i can postpone my happiness with gadgets right now .
4. When I grow old and when I look back , if my memories with my child has my inputs to it my time spent with it ,fun, singjng and dancing, it will be an accomplished journey. While if i use gadget then my child's childhood memory will "never" contain "Me."
5.So its ok to just postpone the usage for a temporary time where I have "much more important things" to do .
6. If we can give a dedicated "strictly no phone" time to my child (spend talking, playing, discussing, eating along ,sleeping with), my child understands and will need a time of its own where I can go ahead and use it without having to feel guilty ...
7. Last but not least we can try using old properties like pen and paper whereever suitable so we reduce the usage of phone !!!

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