Ponder 9

#Point_to_Ponder :

A good teaching always comes with a practise of it and being an example set.

#Explanation:

Before trying to educate kids, we should make sure to follow them, so they better understand what we are trying to teach.

#Example :

If we are about to teach any moral or value to kids, we should revisit our habits in front of them so they don't contradict with teaching and basic living.

#Scenario :

Say, we are asking our kids to obey and oblige when parents call them or ask them anything to be done .

Like,
1. Come for dinner.
2. Sleeping time.
3. Throw things in Trash.

For them to do these...

We got to revisit out habit to "oblige them" in same way and set an example to show that, **"this is how we have to obey"** !

Like; when they say these...

1. Come to play with me.
2. Sleep with me.
3. Dine with me.

Only when we respect their needs and show them how to respect and obey, do they really understand:  for they are just kids and we already believe we are grown ups.

So here's what we got to do :

1. Before asking them to do something, show them how to do.

2. Do not reject their obligations if they are valid.

3. Spend time to explain good habits with stories and examples. Explain consequences of not following them rather than threatening or scolding to follow.

4. Make sure to practise those within self in first place.

5. Keep reminding them with patience until they are totally habitualised to it.

6.Reward them for all those obeying for they will Reward back with they becoming a good citizen henceforth not only to us, but to this Planet !

#TryIt

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